“BEYOND THE PAIN – Finding Faith, Healing, and Discernment Before Marriage” is a pre-marital book that offers couples a spiritually grounded, emotionally intelligent guide to preparing for covenant love. It moves beyond romantic ideals and cultural myths to explore the deeper purpose of marriage, the individual healing required before union, and the sacred dynamics that shape a lifelong partnership.
At its core, the book teaches that marriage is not merely a social arrangement or emotional bond; it is a covenant designed by God to reflect His relationship with the Church. This covenant calls for mutual submission, sacrificial love, and a shared commitment to holiness. Rather than promising perpetual happiness, marriage invites transformation, sanctification, and legacy-building.
With clarity and compassion, the book explores the purpose of marriage, the importance of individual healing, and the emotional and spiritual dynamics that shape a lifelong partnership. From dismantling cultural myths to navigating sex, in-laws, finances, and communication, this book equips readers to build marriages rooted in truth, grace, and legacy. It also addresses core beliefs, spiritual warfare, and the role of the Holy Spirit, the Great Helper, in sustaining love through every season.
Ideal for single young adults considering marriage, couples, counselors, and ministry leaders, this resource offers a holistic, emotionally intelligent framework for preparing hearts and minds for sacred union.
